Posts in Couples
Dating After Break-up: How to Survive (And Thrive) When You Start Dating Again

You’ve experienced the exhilarating highs of a relationship and the unimaginable lows of its end, but did you know you can thrive in the aftermath? It’s true! You can. With time and focused effort, you can not only survive, you can also thrive in 2021 when you start dating again after a break up or divorce.

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Spot the Difference: Lust vs. Love

When you first meet someone and feel a physical attraction to them, it can be easy to start reading more into what you feel than is really there. The initial phase of attraction is where you can find no fault in the other person. You focus on how they look, how the brush of their hand makes you feel, or when you think of them it is to fantasize about a physical relationship but not anything deeper.

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How Can I Forgive You After Betrayal?

Cheating, infidelity, emotional affairs – big betrayals are extremely hurtful and traumatic for any relationship. And while a break-up or divorce is inevitable for some couples, there may be hope for other couples willing to put the past behind them and move forward. Here is a look at six steps both couples can take to successfully reach a place of forgiveness after a betrayal.

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The Importance of Asking "How Was Your Day?"

Modern life is incredibly busy, and between balancing job needs, family needs, and individual needs, it can often be difficult to remember to make time for our partners.

In fact, it can be quite easy to start taking them for granted. This change between them holding a key spot in our lives, to adopting more of a secondary role occurs so gradually that it’s hard to see it even happening.

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4 Simple Tips to Help You Balance Couple Time with Family Time

Having children can feel like a full-time job, and while it’s certainly true that your children will flourish under loving attention, other important aspects of your life can fall by the wayside.

According to research by Dr. John Gottman, the nation's top marriage expert, 67% of new parents experience a precipitous drop in couple satisfaction in the first three years of the baby’s life.

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Part 3: Three Essentials For A Long Lasting Love: Friendship, Intimacy, and Managing Conflict

The third essential for a long lasting love is managing conflict. Expecting conflict to be completely eliminated from your relationship is an unrealistic expectation. All relationships have conflict and conflict can actually be a good thing in a relationship. If couples can learn to find the deeper meaning and goals underneath conflict they can begin to understand their partner better and make your goals and dreams come true together.

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CouplesCarole Cullen