Premarital Counseling & Coaching
Are you about to get married?
We've all seen the movies, heard the songs, and yearned for the fairytale. As therapists offering premarital counseling, we know that love is beautiful. So is marriage! But, it requires a lot of work, and it's not without its challenges.
Getting married can be very nerve-wracking for many people. You might be asking yourself: Will this person be the one I spend the rest of my life with? Can we make it through the tough times? Will I be who they expect me to be? Or, will things change?
You may have started to have doubts. The financial planning and stress of the wedding have caused some tension. You and your partner are bickering (sometimes fighting). Now, you're worried that if things are already becoming stressful, they'll only get worse.
You may also be head-over-heels for your partner and overjoyed about getting married. But, it's normal to still have these fears. Marriage is a big step!
This is Where Premarital Counseling & Coaching Can Help
Premarital counseling & coaching can help you and your partner prepare for the challenges that come with marriage.
Working with a premarital coach can provide you with the tools you need to build a strong foundation for your marriage. By doing so, you can feel assured that you'll be able to navigate the challenges that may arise. Premarital counseling can also help you gain a deeper understanding of your partner. With this deeper understanding, you can enter marriage with a clear perspective.
Premarital counseling can help address any concerns you may have before getting married. If you're struggling with communication, financial stress, or intimacy, working with an experienced premarital counselor can help. They can help you work through these concerns before the big day. That way, you can enter marriage feeling confident and ready to take on whatever may come your way.
Common Reasons Couples Begin Premarital Counseling
Premarital counseling isn't only for couples who are having pre-wedding jitters. Every couple starts counseling for a different reason. Here are only a few of the common reasons we've seen couples seek premarital counseling:
They want to be better prepared for the challenges of marriage.
They're struggling in their relationship. But, they want to address the issues before getting married.
They have concerns about communication and fighting.
They're struggling with intimacy.
They want to make sure they're on the same page about important topics. This may include things like having children, moving, or finances.
We Can Help
The counselors on our team have worked with countless couples who are in the same space that you may be in right now. They felt scared, distraught, and sometimes doubtful. It's important to know that you don't have to go through this alone. A premarital counselor can guide, support, and empower you to build a stronger and more connected marriage.
Our counselors in North Carolina have worked with couples at varying points in their life and relationships. Some couples come to us before they've decided to get married, while others come to us weeks before they say "I Do."
At our practice, our counselors are not only allies of the LGBTQ+ community. We are also educated and experienced too. We’ve worked with couples of all identities. As a result, we understand that your unique experiences and relationship dynamic matter.
Online Premarital Counseling in North Carolina and Georgia Can Help!
No matter where you are in your relationship, premarital counseling can help you and your partner feel better prepared for marriage.
Working with a counselor will help you and your partner create a stronger and more secure bond. You'll have a space to process and explore the problems that you are currently facing. And, together you'll learn new ways to tackle challenges down the road.
Our Approach to Online Premarital Counseling in North Carolina and Georgia
Each premarital counselor on our team takes an individualized approach to each couple they see. We understand that every relationship is different. So are the challenges they face. That's why we'll tailor your premarital counseling experience to fit the unique needs of your relationship.
Our premarital counseling services are based on well-researched approaches. They are very effective in helping couples prepare for marriage.
Prepare/Enrich
Prepare/Enrich is a premarital counseling program designed to help couples assess their relationship and identify areas of both strength and growth. It's a very "hands-on" approach. It includes worksheets and books to help you and your partner lay out a plan to prepare for marriage.
Gottman Method
The counselors on our team are trained in the Gottman Method as well. The Gottman Method is a very well-researched approach to couples counseling. It emphasizes building trust, connection, and admiration toward your partner. It's very effective in premarital counseling. This is because it helps couples deepen their relationship by turning towards each other in an intentional way.
Emotionally Focused Therapy
EFT is another research-based approach to couples counseling that our counselors have training in. It helps couples to identify and understand the negative patterns that may be hurting their relationship. After identifying these negative patterns, you and your partner will learn how to communicate and resolve conflict in a healthier way.
These three approaches all have their differences. But, they all share a common goal: to help you and your partner turn away from unhealthy patterns. Instead, our goal is to work towards a more loving and healing relationship.
Begin Premarital Counseling in Wake Forest, NC Wake Forest, NC (serving the greater raleigh, NC area) and Across North Carolina and Georgia
We know that it feels scary right now, but you don't have to walk through this journey on your own. Our counselors are experienced in working with couples who are taking this next step in their relationship. They know what works, and they can teach you the skills that really work.
If you're ready to take the next step in your relationship, My Therapist is here to help. Please follow these simple steps to get started:
Contact My-Therapist
Meet with a caring therapist
Start setting a strong foundation for your marriage!
Other Services Offered With My-Therapist
We are happy to offer a variety of mental health services. Other services include online therapy, family therapy, individual therapy for relationship issues, couples workshops, couples therapy, prenatal therapy, child loss therapy, teen therapy, and couples intensive therapy. We also offer support through premarital counseling, divorce counseling, foundations of lasting love, co-parenting counseling, and AAMFT supervision. Read our blog to learn more about us and our services!